Attention single gentlemen! This post is dedicated to you..especially those of you who are out there attempting to navigate the wildly unknown and frustratingly difficult dating scene in Seattle.
I realize that most men would like to date a woman who is independent, driven, self-sufficient, successful and confident. Please know that these qualities in a woman do not equate to a lack of chivalry on the man’s part. We’d still like to be treated like ladies.
So here are some very simple yet very chivalrous (and quite appreciated if I do say so myself) acts that will surely impress her on a date:
1.) CALL a girl to make plans to set a date and time to meet up. Yes I realize that text messaging is the communication channel of choice now a days for most people…present company included. But phone calls are much more appreciated and it’s proof to us gals that you really do want to make plans with us.
2.) Pull out chairs and open doors (car, building, airplane hangar). You guys already know this – so do it!!

It's not old fashioned to open doors!!
3.) Walk to the OUTSIDE of the sidewalk – always walk the lady to the inside. I know that many of you are not aware of this one – but I’m bringing it back! I once dated a man who is a military officer and this was something they learned in a mandatory manners class while going through officer training. I never knew about this little chivalrous act until he did it – and I just love it…as do most women!!
4.) Pay for dinner. This one you should also know. Yes an independent successful woman will pull out her wallet and take out her credit card but she’s waiting for you to say “Put that away – this is on me.” Really, she is. She’s probably STILL waiting for you to say that, so now’s your big chance.

Pick up the check - at least the first couple of times out.
5.) Walk her to her car/ front door or wherever she happens to be going. At that point a hug goodbye will suffice.
**Bonus points: A text message to her at bit later saying you had a great time (but only if you REALLY did) and that you’d like to take her out again.
Now these tips may not lead to a next date, but I guarantee that you’ll at least get a smile out of the lady – which is really the whole point, right?